Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Everyone needs a family photo...

Everyone needs a family photo...



but he didn't get one.



Eight million children in Africa have already lost one or both parents to HIV/AIDS. Most, like this boy, don't even have as much as a simple family photo to remember them by. Help us change that for the future orphans of Africa.

1000 Words of Hope Project

Visas and paperwork...

July 31, 2007

We just returned from dinner at a local asian bistro with my parents, Don and Zenda, where we discussed the details of our upcoming trip. It's neat to watch them get excited about the vision and mission of this expedition and I can see that they resonate with the importance of what they are and will be a part of. During our conversation we went over flight itineries, visa applications, shots, what the schedule will look like day to day, who will do what, as well as our strategy regarding packing since we are allowed very little weight (imagine all the equipment: cameras, wireless transmitters, batteries, computers, printers, rolls of paper, extra ink etc. and that doesn't even include our clothes) on the small plane taking to the interior of the country. It will definately be an adventure. The reality is beginning to set in that I will be away from our beautiful little girl, Zoe, for two weeks! Just the thought of it makes me anxious, saddened and a pit in my stomach; however, I know in my spirit that this is what I am suppose to be doing and I try my best to remind myself that she is going to have a blast with her grandparents and great grandparents and that they are going to have a ton of fun too.

Well things keep coming together in really cool ways...Matt recieved a voicemail earlier today from a buddy of his, Steve, who wants to put together a documentary video of all of our pictures and video footage when we get back. It's been amazing to just watch people come out of the wood work offering to use their specific giftedness to help make this thing happen. Here's another cool thing--Matt's bestfriend, Andy, since the second grade plays in a hot band in St. Louis and offered Matt to do a benefit concert for us in the fall! It's craziness, but it's so refreshing to see so many people catching the spirit of this idea and using whatever their resources are just to be a part of it. To that we say thank you for your service because it can and will only work when we all get our feet wet.

Monday, July 30, 2007

Starting a Non-profit

Tuesday, July 24, 2007


One month ago I quit my job to begin a non-profit organization with my wife Elizabeth that exists to help people use their gifts and talents to make a difference and generate hope. Our organization is called Creative Differences and our first project (1000 Words of Hope) will involve providing family photos for African families affected by the HIV/AIDS crisis. In many African countries, the AIDS epidemic has created a humanitarian crisis wherein children are orphaned and left to literally fend for themselves on the street alone. Two- and three-year-old children are left to take care of their baby siblings because all of the adults in their family have died. Elizabeth saw many scenarios like this first-hand when she visited Ethiopia a couple of years ago.

It was after this experience that we began to think about ways that we might be able to help, even if it was in a small way. Neither of us is a doctor or engineer, which would be required in many cases for providing necessities for survival (health care, clean water, etc.) However, Elizabeth is a photographer so we started to brainstorm ideas of how this gift of creativity could be used to infuse a little hope into the African situation.

So, we teased out a plan to go into remote villages with digital cameras, wireless transfer devises, and fast printers in order to set up an on-location photo shoot for hundreds of people at a time, leaving each family with a sheet of photos to divide among themselves, so that each person has a picture to remember his/her family as it once was.

The more we thought through the idea the more it occurred to us how we take for granted the sense of identity that comes from seeing old pictures of our families. We remember where we came from, or how life was back then. We see the resemblances of our parents in our faces as we grow. Our hope is that the memories generated by the pictures we take will help the children who will be orphaned in Africa hold on to a hope for a better life and a family of their own.

We are currently in the process of simultaneously setting up the nuts and bolts of the organization and planning our first trip. In September we will be setting out for Ghana to try out our idea full scale. It is a daunting task to hammer out all the details of shooting and printing so far from home. All the equipment as well as those operating it have to be able to function in some pretty intense circumstances (heat, dust, etc.). Our contact assured us that it will not be as hot in September--only 100 degrees! Even in the midst of all these details, Elizabeth and I are extremely excited about the possibilities of a trip like this. We are going to learn a ton and come back with lots of ideas to refine the process for the next trip and future projects.

Travel Plans and Shots!

Thursday, July 26, 2007


Today we all but finalized our travel itinerary to Ghana, which includes a stop in Arlington to drop off Zoe with my parents. They are very excited about getting to spend an extended amount of time with her and I know she will be glad to see them as well. My head wurred for most of the day with details of flight departure and arrival times and whether or not our connections would be too close to make. After the dust has settled, however, I think we have put together a plan that will get us there and back with reasonable simplicity. Some of the flight arrangement options would have taken over 30 for us to reach Ghana. I think we could take a steam ship and get there in less time. I was happy to have found a non-stop flight that will only take 10 hours instead. We will confirm and actually book the reservations tomorrow and a huge weight will lift from our shoulders as we can shift our energies to equipment and preparation for our actual time in Africa rather than just getting there.

In other news, Elizabeth and I got our shots for the trip today. A lot of money and soar arms later, we are protected from all sorts of nasty viruses and water-borne illnesses. The shots have made us both feel sluggish as there is no telling what kind of weird stuff our bodies are fighting off right now. We were going to post pictures of our band-aided arms, but Elizabeth's band-aids fell off. She elected to have the sparkle-glitter ones and sacrificed long-term adhesiveness for the look. I guess I could still post mine, but they are just the normal ones, which will probably still be on my arms after we return from Africa at the end of September.

Greta goes home...

As Zoe and I returned home this afternoon from a trip to the grocery, the first thing I noticed was a fruit basket sitting on the porch with a great big pink bow stuck on top and a card tucked under it. It was a thank you note and gift note from a woman Matt and I had just briefly met last week when she came to pick up Greta, her lost German shepherd. Greta had been under our care for the week before, when we had notice her coming around for a couple of days trying to eat the cat and dog’s food (Phoenix and Mobii) food and for good reason. After all, she was quite emaciated making it quite clear that she was far from home and had been for a while. However, even though we continued to feed and talk to her she always remained at a safe distance from us staying quite skittish, but didn’t seem to think twice about joining Mobii for afternoon naps on the back deck. Finally, after about a week of trying to encouraging her to come closer all in an attempt to get the info off her collar so that hopefully we could find her owner. We quickly found ourselves becoming quite fond of her and were saddened by the thought of her going home, but as soon as Matt called her owner, we couldn’t help but be excited for their reunion as Greta’s owner was so relieved and her joy spilled through the phone. She didn’t hesitate for a moment—she would leave work immediately, drive home to get the leash and be at our place within the next 15 minutes! And sure enough, there she was and filled us in on what had happened as well as her name, as we only knew to call her, “Come here girl.” It ends up that Greta had jumped the fence a month earlier and her owner had been looking for her everywhere—she even camped out one night in a stranger’s backyard where Greta had been spotted. She was diligent in trying to find her, but sadly to no avail. Speaking of sad, she had just cancelled all of Greta’s up and coming vet appointments (shots etc.) earlier this morning because she didn't think she was coming back. It was nice and reassuring to see that Greta was returning to a good home where she would receive only the best care and love that she deserved. Even though, after a week of gentle, but persistent persuading from both Matt and myself, Greta had only let us pet her this morning for the first time, yet by the time it was for her to go home, not even 4 hours later, she willingly welcomed all the loving she could get. It was amazing to watch her move from being so nervous and watching her back 24/7, to being so relaxed with us—even if it did take a lot of encouragement.

So what does this have to do with the1000 Words of Hope Project? A couple of things…

Change doesn’t start on the other side of the world in Africa. It starts in our own backyard.

I was also reminded that we must take every opportunity to error on the side of Love—you can never go wrong with that. Perhaps that means we extend love to our neighbor, a scared animal, our enemy, a stranger, the earth, our parents, our children, the clerk at the gas station, our spouse, sisters and brothers, and even ourselves. It was amazing to watch how a simple cup or two of dog food and a bowl of clean water, not only saved a life, but two hearts as well this weak. What we did was not heroic and it wasn’t a difficult decision; after all, how can you turn away a starving life even if it is four legged? It was really a pretty simple decision.

And one more thing, we thought that we were giving and nurturing Greta (even though at the time we did not know her name) and that is true. However, if anyone received anything this week it had to have been us because Greta's owner not only gave us a warm thank you with the basket and card, but also left a check for $200 towards our trip to Africa this fall! It blew Matt and I away that she was moved to such a gesture for pretty much complete strangers that she didn't even know our names and had to leave the payable part blank for us to fill in! This was so much more than a check, but an unexpected encouragement to Matt and I as we continue to put all of our eggs into the crazy idea of starting a non-profit basket. When I become anxious about all the details (remember I am the big picture—Vision person), I am reminded in my spirit that God is never late—not in some mushy, gushy way, but in a very real way. God seems to continually send moments along like these as if to remind our little family that we are exactly where we need to be and as long as we continue to make ourselves available to Him and use the gifts that He has given us, He will continue to provide.

It is so refreshing to meet such a wonderful and unassuming woman like Greta’s mom, who is so grateful that she without thought continues to pass along the same joy and kindness we all felt in our driveway that day. To that I say, thank you—your gesture was far more than mere money, but a genuine encouragement! And can you believe it, for all intensive purposes you were a mere stranger, but who is the first person to financially support this dream! How can I not look at that and see how God has orchestrated this idea, not Matt or myself, I am creative, but not this creative—we are simply a part of this idea and firmly believe that it will only be successful when others come to the table with whatever God has given them—w e are only a fraction of the whole. It seems clear to me that God has blessed this adventure, I mean don’t non-profit organizations usually have to beg for money? There’s something innately different about this project though. I have found that The 1000 Words of Hope Project seems to resonate with people from all walks of life who hear even a second of our mission. I think it is because the mission deals with such fundamental needs of the human spirit—to understand, to be remembered, to remember etc. that we feel it in our gut the rawness of these children’s realities and what they will not have if we don’t step up that we cannot help but to be provoked and compelled by it.

On a litter note and one more thing before I close, I want to say thanks for the fruit too—we always have fresh fruit around here and Zoe is very excited about the pears, they are her favorite. Also, please give Greta some love for us and let her know that Mobii misses her greatly.